People mistake feelings of a strong attraction as love. Pecking and necking can increase a form of erotic love but that’s not genuine love.
There’s a very thin line between obsession and love….
SIGN #1 YOU TRUST THEM.
You cannot trust someone you don’t love and you cannot love someone you don’t trust. You can really talk to them about anything.And I do mean anything. You’re totally comfortable around him/her.
SIGN#2 YOU’RE IN LOVE WHEN YOU BECOME SELFLESS
You are deeply in love with someone when everything is no longer about you. You really want to please them because your heart is no longer just your own but its now shared. You think about their problem as though its yours.
SIGN#3 YOU’RE IN LOVE WHEN YOU WANT TO GIVE
Giving is a great sign of love. It triggers one into appreciating the other. You give someone something because you know they do need it not because you feel like.It has been in your heart because you cherish them. Giving doesn’t just involve material things but giving your time and listening ears is very deep and valuable for someone you love.
SIGN #4 YOU FIND YOURSELF ALWAYS TALKING ABOUT HIM/HER
You can’t help it. Someone says or does something that reminds you of him and before you even realize it you’re talking about him. Sometimes it can be involuntary.
SIGN #5 TWO MINUTES WITH THEM IS WORTH MORE THAN A WHOLE DAY WITHOUT HIM/HER
Any tiny interaction, even if he isn’t saying something romantic, makes your whole day. And it can leave you smiling inside for hours after.
SIGN#6 YOU HAVE MORE ENERGY
As you go through your day, you feel more alive and energetic, as if you have a constant adrenaline rush going through you.
You feel more productive, like you can take on the world every single day. Sometimes you might even loose appetite when they are around you and the hunger beeps on when they leave. Lol..how weird love can be.
SIGN #7 TRUE LOVE MOTIVATES POSITIVE BEHAVIOR
You wouldn’t wanna be a burden to someone you love. You will try to drop the bad attitudes since you know it will dampen your love life. Love really changes lotta things. I believe so, you too need to.
SIGN #8 YOU’RE IN LOVE WHEN YOU WANT TO SPUR YOUR PARTNER TO SUCCESS.
If you both just go on dates and telling each other sweet nothings, you’re definitely not in love. I’m not saying those things ain’t important to do but if your relationship lies on this , you’re not in love. Love is way too far from this. You motivate one another to become the best they can ever be.
SIGN #9 DISTANCE IS NOT A BARRIER WHEN YOU’RE IN LOVE.
NO matter how distant the person is, the love is there. There’s this bond/ intimacy that has been built. Now I am not saying long distant relationships are just the best but You must not be physical to bond heart to heart.You must not be physical to prove you are in love.There’s this loyalty regardless of how long you are separated. That’s why you can find someone still in love with the girl he broke up with 4 years ago. And you definitely think ” this guy is crazy” right?
SIGN #10 YOU’RE IN LOVE WHEN YOU’RE COMMITTED.
A lot of people shy away from commitments. They cannot take up responsibilities. Its not just about recognising your responsibilities but to be able to execute them too.
Finally, If you can recognise and carry out your responsibilities, then you are committed and ready to love at its best.
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